What Is Confidence?

Self confidence is the internal fortitude that is foraged through the fire of mental combat. It comes from keeping the promises that you make to yourself. It comes through struggle and triumph. Overcoming past traumas and becoming the greatest version of you.

How To Develop Self Confidence

Know your why-

Knowing your why is akin to knowing your purpose. When times get hard, you can call on your why. Doing things for the people you love is a common one. One persons obedience is connected to so many peoples destines; meaning everything we do can significantly impact other people. If you don’t have a why, you will get knocked down every time. Those with a why can endure almost any how.

Become competent-

Confidence also comes from competence. The more you do something, the better you get at it, and the more confidence you have. Overcoming challenges is a great way to build confidence as well. This is because challenges build character, and more character leads to more confidence.

Do hard shit-

Doing hard things and putting yourself through challenging situations will make you hard. This will allow you to be more resilient against obstacles, and to take more on. For example, I recently undergone a 5 day fast. I had nothing but water and bone broth for 5 days. Why did I do this? Primarily for mental resilience, but there is also a lot of health benefits. I got a lot from it in terms of character and insight. Doing things like this on a regular basis will build character and carry over to everything else in life.

Integrity-

Integrity is the ability to keep your word with yourself. The more integrity you have, the more you will be able to serve others because they know they can rely on you. Integrity comes from staying true to you word, and being the change you wish to see in the world. When your alignment with who you really are and your purpose, you have integrity.

Overcome your story-

Overcoming your story is about overcoming the big and past challenges in your life. We all have a story, the question is the pen in your hands, or are you passing it on to someone else. When it’s in your hands, you get to decide what happens next. The power is truly within us, and we can move mountains.