What Is Real Masculinity?

Real masculinity consists of certain character traits such as integrity, freedom orientation, linear moving, consistency, and discipline. These character traits must be foraged through everyday life. The decisions we make, and the actions that we take. Everything we do will lead us more into a greater version of ourselves or not.

How To Develop Real Masculinity

1. Semen retention

I am putting this here because if we can control the most powerful force that we have, sexual energy, then we are much more able to have agency over our own lives. This is the ancient Taoist practice of not expelling your seed every chance you get. According to Taoist philosophy and modern science, ejaculating all the time depletes your energy. We know that semen can reabsorb in your body and generate tissue. There is a compound in sperm called spermidine that has been well verified to promote longevity and autophagy.

2. Integrity

Integrity is the ability to keep your word with yourself. The more integrity you have, the more you will be able to serve others because they know they can rely on you. Integrity comes from staying true to you word, and being the change you wish to see in the world. When your alignment with who you really are and your purpose, you have integrity.

3. Freedom orientation

They never can be as strong or as fast as us because they live in a reality that operates based on rules. Stand for freedom means to stand for whats real. You will not take orders from tyrants. Everything is birthed from freedom. The reality is that it can not be taken, they never gave it to us in the first place. Freedom is inherent in us, sure you can shut things down, but you can never take the true essence of freedom. We don’t play by the rules, we live by principle. Discipline equals freedom. Yes you can do whatever you want, but what are your results? If you want to be healthy, wealthy, or have great relationships; we must have the discipline to implement certain practices, habits, and mindset to get the results. They think they control us, but they misunderstand, freedom can’t be contained.

Altruism

This is the character trait of looking out for life as a whole. Being able to see people for who they are and willing to help. You see the value in all life, and will do anything to preserve and expand it. Being generous is a virtue. Giving from your overflow so you are not left drained. Anytime you truly have the ability to help someone, do it. The more you give, the more you get. Even with that, you are not giving to get, but giving to serve. We are all connected, and if other people are winning, in a way we all are. The rising tide raises all ships, and there’s enough for everyone.

Love Is Real

You must have the ability to do the hard things, but also must be able to love. That’s because it’s the most powerful force on the planet. Fear has no power unless you give it power. All the positive attributes of masculinity are actually born out of love. Coming from a place of growth and service is key. We must also have the ability to have balanced energy. For example, I lift weights, train with fire arms, and give the finger to tyrants, but I also meditate, journal, and socialize. This is important because the Yang without the yin will eventually burn out. Be willing to restore your chi.

Principles Of A King

1. Automatic solution response

This refers to when we come up against an obstacle, training our mind to be solution oriented, rather than reaction oriented. The solution is always present, the question is will we be receptive enough to grasp it. There can not be a problem without a solution, they’re two sides of the same coin.

2. Learn to protect

Learning self defense and how to protect others matters. Protecting your family and people in general is a good idea. Learning martial arts and how to shoot is a good start. The most strength and intelligence actually comes from not needing to use conflict in the first place. Peace first, and conflict is a last resort. This can also be a great form of personal development. Become a sheepdog and protecter of your people. Lastly, being a protecter is not just about physical, but also peoples minds and emotions.

3. Sober minded

I have never drank, never smoked, never done any drugs, if I’m on the internet, it’s for research/creation. For a king must stay sober minded. You can not expect to be on point and mentally sharp if you are indulged in short term pleasures. A king must make the best decisions for the majority of people. In order to do this, you must have a free mind.

Brotherhood

A kings purpose is to serve from a place of abundance. The greatest level of service will come from being the greatest version of one self. Also, you can not do it alone, and will need brotherhood. A kings brothers? Freedom fighting men with no mercy. Brothers that stand shoulder to shoulder. Freedom is the foundation and path toward greatness. The paradox is that we are both kings and brothers simultaneously.